So we finally got a phone call from the HOA president...

She is going to look at our request, but not until the next meeting. Didn't care about the disability aspect, didn't want to hear about the Fair Housing Act. I am pleased by her agreement to look at it, but not the time frame. We have been waiting since August. I am still thinking about filing a complaint on the basis of the delay, so they might approach this differently for the next person with a disability.