Saturday, February 13, 2010

I am in the mood for shoes...

I spent entirely too much time browsing Piperlime tonight.  The Keen maryjanes are probably what I would get and wear the heck out of, because they are totally Mom shoes.  But I am trying to find my girlie girl again.  I love the Betsey Johnson's in the middle, but I honestly think I have forgotten how to walk in anything like that.  Having said that, I am a woman and I should totally relearn.  The Nine West pumps are cute, I love the pumps, and they would be more easily walked in.  The cowboy boots... cute as hell.  I want them.  I don't need them.  I need heels more, but I love them.  The last shoes... I see these everywhere.  I can't decide if I like them or not.  The heels are always incredible way high if they aren't a wedge - I have never been able to walk in a wedge without rolling my ankle - but I can't decide how I feel about the look. 

I really should buy a pair of heels and clean house in them until I have mastered them enough to go out in public.  I am sure I am making more out of this than it is, that it is like riding a bike, blah, blah, blah, but I really stopped wearing them when I got pregnant.  With small kids, definitely not practical.  With Jimmy the runner - I don't even wear flip flops with him now.  Only foot wear that withstand pursuit.  But there are something that I just want to start taking back in my life.  Some are big, some are small.  I am not sure which column I would put heels in right now, but I am taking them back.

Friday, February 12, 2010

So let's start it up... Rush Limbaugh Sponsors...

Since it has come to my attention that Rush Limbaugh likes to use the word retard to describe pretty much anyone he doesn't agree with and Sarah Palin (even though her own child has a developmental disability) defends his use of it as satire, I thought it was time to trot out a list of his sponsors on my blog to along with that of Michael Savage.  Since my own son had that slur thrown at him as recently as trip to the Marriott at Sea World (there's a long story), I have a special disdain for that word.  This initial list included Scotttrade, where we have an account.  I removed it myself after a phone call to our local office and their follow up, which found that they quit advertising on Rush over six years ago.  Sadly, these things have a habit of perpetuating themselves.  Good thing I checked - I was ready to close the Scottrade account.  And Red Lobster hasn't advertised in over five years...  so they are gone off the initial list to.  But if anyone has anything to add or delete, feel free to leave it in the comments section.

Or you can always check his website....  if I get flowers from Proflowers for Valentine's Day, I won't be happy!!!

ProFlowers
wecare@customercare.Proflowers.com  
1-800-580-2913



Overstock.com
1-800-989-0135
(customer comments and service email)
otherinfo@overstock.com

eharmony
300 N. Lake Ave., Suite 1111
Pasadena, CA 91101
media@eharmony.com
Web contact form
626.795.4814
FAX 626.585.4040

Inverness Medical (maker of stresstabs)
51 Sawyer Road
Waltham, MA 02021
1-800-899-7353 weekdays, 8 am. - 6 p.m. (Eastern Time.)

Onstar
Online comment form

Hotwire Corporate Headquarters
333 Market Street, Suite 100
San Francisco, CA 94105
advertising@hotwire.com
1-877-HOTWIRE (468-9473)
415-343-8400

Sleep Number Bed
1-800-438-2233

The Neptune Society of Northern California
Stewart Enterprises
12070 Telegraph Road #107
Santa Fe Springs, CA 90670

Oreck Upright Vacuum Cleaners
Oreck Corporation
100 Plantation Road
New Orleans, Louisiana 70123
Online contact form
1-800-289-5888

Smart & Final
Customer Relations
PO Box 512377
Los Angeles, CA 91001-0377
(Heard on KFI 640 in Los Angeles)

Mid-West Life Insurance Company of Tennessee
9151 Grapevine Hwy.
North Richland Hills, TX 76180
Phone (800) 733-1110
(web banner ads on rushlimbaugh.com)

AutoZone Inc.
P.O. Box 2198
Memphis, TN 38101
Phone (901) 495-7185
Fax (901) 495-8374
investor.relations@autozone.com

UPDATED - Citracal - Mission Pharmacal
Bennett Kennedy - Citracal Product Manager
Mission Pharmacal
P.O. Box 786099
San Antonio, TX 78278-6099
Phone:(800) 531-3333

Blue-Emu
Blue Emu refuses to give a contact other than their generic "info" box: <info@nfidiet.com>
1-800-432-9334
http://www.blue-emu.com/

Lumber Liquidators
Toll Free: 877-645-5347
Contact list: http://www.lumberliquidators.com/contact_us.html
Avacor (hair loss treatment)
(customer comments email)
comments@avacorusa.com

Lazerguide® (golf instruction tool)
PO Box 807
New Hudson Michigan 48165
1-877-266-6430 (toll free)

Mission Pharmacal Company
10999 IH-10 West Suite 1000
San Antonio, TX 78230
Telephone: (800) 531-3333

General Steel Metal Buildings
1075 South Yukon, Ste. 250
Lakewood, Colorado 80226
Toll Free: 1-888-98-STEEL
Phone: 303-904-4837
Fax: 303-979-0084

Life Quotes, Inc.
32045 Castle Court
Evergreen, CO 80439
1-800-670-5433
info@lifequotes.com.au

Select Comfort Corporation
6105 Trenton Lane N
Minneapolis, MN 55442
Phone: 763-551-7000
Fax: 763-551-7826
investorrelations@selectcomfort.com

RegionalHelpWanted.com, Inc.
1 Civic Center Plaza, Suite 506
Poughkeepsie, NY 12601
800-365-8630
845-471-5200
Feedback@RegionalHelpWanted.com

The Swap Shop CLICK HERE
3291 East Sunrise
Ft. Lauderdale, FL
swpshop@aol.com
Phone - 954.791.$WAP

Pfizer Inc
235 East 42nd Street
New York, NY 10017
212-733-2323

What I Just Posted on Facebook...

(And really, if you know my name, you should friend me there too...)



Going to leave the house with both of my kids, without the aid or assistance of anyone else. Wish me luck. This usually ends badly.

Snowoverload

Never have I been so busy doing so little.  My days have been one endless blur of keeping Jimmy's clothes on, his body off the furniture, and him out of the pantry and away from the fruit snacks.  This week has been the object lesson of why this child needs the structure of year round instruction.  I pity, absolutely pity what Ms. K is going to get back next week.  Jimmy cries for home when I drop him off at school, but he cries for school when he is at home, which means transitions are going to suck next week and Mr. M is going to likely going to take another nut shot (happened a few weeks ago.)  His attendants, especially E, have done their very best to keep coming regardless of the weather to help maintain structure for him, which maintains structure for Jacob by extension, but it has been a struggle.

I am honestly considering venturing out with both of them this morning by myself, which is something I never do.  I need to get a gift, but I just need to get out and so do these kids, no matter how daunting a task it is for me.  A trip to Fair Oaks may be in order.

Tuesday, February 09, 2010

A Response to a Friend's Facebook Post...

It sort of nicely sums up how I feel about the whole Rahm Emanuel flap...

"And I would like to say Sarah Palin is a complete hypocrite for saying that it is okay for Rush Limbaugh to use the word, categorizing his use as satire. Who cares? My son is autistic and he is eight - yes, I have heard the word applied to him and it crushes you. For about thirty seconds, then you attack. I have never taken it lying down. Sarah Palin owes my son an apology, as does Rahm Emanuel and Rush Limbaugh."

I don't think I will ever get it from any of the three of them as they are all too arrogant for their own good.  No one can justify using that slur, whether it be personally or defend someone of a similar political affiliation of doing so.

More tomorrow.  I just realized again I haven't posted in a week.  Never have I been so busy doing so little.

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

A local argument that bears repeating...


Because it affects special education, regular education, my kids, my neighbors...  I can't believe not one, but two governors proposed slighting our region like this.
Reprinted from the Washington Post:
Insult from Richmond
By Sharon Bulova, Corey A. Stewart and Scott K. York
Education is the silver bullet. Our children are our future. These are things we know intuitively, and in these uncertain economic times, we must continue to strengthen this foundation to ensure our economic recovery and success in a global marketplace.
As governments at every level face significant budget shortfalls, elected officials are wrestling with difficult decisions and painful cuts. In Northern Virginia, unfortunately, our challenge is exacerbated by a recent state budget proposal to freeze the local composite index (LCI) for K-12 education.
The LCI is the measure used to determine state and local shares of K-12 funding in Virginia. The formula uses data (growth in student population, local income, retail sales and property values) to determine a locality’s ability to pay for its schools. It is part of the routine distribution for education funding that occurs every two years. It has been in place for four decades.
Traditionally, the funding formulas disadvantage Northern Virginia, as revenue is redistributed to areas with fewer resources. This year, however, with property values plummeting and school enrollment growing, the formula would actually trigger an improved share of funding for Northern Virginia jurisdictions.
But in his final budget presentation in December, former governor Tim Kaine proposed freezing all Virginia localities at the previous LCI for one year. This move would cost Fairfax, Prince William and Loudoun counties $118 million. Ironically, localities outside of Northern Virginia, whose comparative wealth increased, would get additional assistance.
Northern Virginia is proud to be the economic engine of the state. We put significant local dollars into K-12 because we know that our first-rate educational system is a key to our quality of life, bringing major Fortune 500 companies to our area, benefiting all. Our residents and businesses understand that maintaining excellence in our schools is a critical component needed to lead us out of this national recession.
A freeze in the LCI is patently arbitrary and an insult to our jurisdictions. We have played by the rules, and this unfair change would pull the rug out from under us at a time when we can afford it least. Gov. Robert F. McDonnell and the General Assembly must not allow this proposal to stand.
Sharon Bulova (D), Corey A. Stewart (R) and Scott K. York (I) are chairmen, respectively, of the boards of supervisors in Fairfax, Prince William and Loudoun counties.

Journal Retracts 1998 Paper Linking Autism to Vaccines

Lancet finally did it... and not a moment too soon.  I have never been a big believer in the vaccine theory, which is a lonely view to hold in the world of autism.  When things started to change for Jimmy was when we hit the world of ear infections and antibiotics at the age of nine months.  But I can't say for certain if they are related.  But with all the screaming about MMR means all the theories that I have heard that hold water with my experience - autism as an autoimmune disorder (my family carries a genetic marker for a certain one), any link to antibiotics, and really any other theory as to why kids like Jimmy are the way they are doesn't get explored they way it could or should.  And every night I go to bed, I wonder if I will live long enough to see him get any better or if I will die leaving Jacob an impossible burden.  It's hard to have hope when you live in state where year after year your General Assembly denies even the most modest initiatives towards therapeutic care.  When parents can't even embrace other parents who have different ideas about how you have arrived at autism's door.  It took me five years to become completely depressed and cynical.  I am hoping to find my way out.  Maybe the actions of the Lancet will be some momentum to start.  MMR as the cause of autism does not equal gospel.

Next, if we can convince people that Hugh Hefner did not Jenny McCarthy a medical degree, we'd be getting somewhere (GFCF works for some kids, but it didn't work on mine, yet everyone feels the need to give me the books...)

Sunday, January 31, 2010

Stealing from Facebook again...


From the Virginia Autism Project:


"What the lobbyists will not tell you: According to the Kaiser Family Foundation, Va Insurance Premiums are below the national average despite having a higher number of mandates. In other words, mandates do not directly corellate to high insurance premiums. HB 303 will actually save Virginia money, if passed, due to ...savings expected in Special Education.

Autism is a neurobiological disorder impacting 1 in 110 individuals and requiring medical insurance coverage. Medical research has proven that early intervention will will yield favorable results and reduce the cost of special education by $147k per student in almost half the cases according to Virginia's audit agency (JLARC). Lets be smart about autism ... mandate early intervention and pass HB303. Please tell your Delegates and Senators before Tuesday's hearing."



Sunday, January 24, 2010

From Dlisted...

Okay, don't let the title fool you... it is really a great, albeit sassy article about revenge from the woman who was the possibly unknowing mistress of the president of Oracle.  It is really funny, thus shared.  Because since I can't sleep tonight, I need a good laugh.

Hot Slut Of The Day!

Posted using ShareThis

Saturday, January 23, 2010

Good news from Facebook!!!


From the Virginia Autism Project - there are 10 autism bills this year, including another one from Delegate/Rock Star Bob Marshall:


"House Bill 34 (HB34) provides the most comprehensive services by mandating health insurance coverage for autism spectrum disorders in individuals under the age of 21. Thank you Delegate Marshall for your support!"  


Intellectually, I know the other one stands a better shot, but emotionally I can have a little hope that maybe, just maybe...

Word to Live By

"All I ask of you is one thing: please don't be cynical. I hate cynicism -- it's my least favorite quality and it doesn't lead anywhere.  Nobody in life gets exactly what they thought they were going to get. But if you work really hard and you're kind, amazing things will happen."


Conan O'Brien

Friday, January 22, 2010

A Great Article: Patient Money: A Road Map to Help Parents Deal with the Financial Burden of Autism


PATIENT MONEY

Dealing With the Financial Burden of Autism

WHEN Jeff Sell’s twin sons were found to have autism 13 years ago, he, like so many other parents in the same situation, found himself with a million questions: Will my children be able to function? What are the best treatments and where do I find them? How will this affect the rest of my family?

And besides those monumental worries, Mr. Sell kept asking himself another fundamental question as he began the long string of doctor and therapist visits with his sons: “How in the world am I going to pay for all this?”

Autism trends, treatments and therapies routinely make headlines. Often overlooked, though, is the financial burden for many families with autistic children.
Treatment is extremely expensive. Direct medical and nonmedical costs can add up to as much as $72,000 a year for someone with an extreme case of the disorder, and even $67,000 a year for those on the lower end of the spectrum, according to a study from the Harvard School of Public Health.

That figure includes medical costs like doctor visits, prescriptions and occupational and speech therapy, as well as expenses for things like special education, camps and child care, said Michael Ganz, the author of the study, who is now a health care consultant.
“It can cost $3.2 million to take care of an autistic person over the course of his or her lifetime,” the study said.

More families are grappling with the disorder than ever before. One of every 110 8-year-old children in the United States has been diagnosed with autism — and one of every 70 boys, according to the latest survey from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, released last fall. That is up from one in 150 children in a comparable report released in 2007.
“The numbers are just amazing,” said Pat Kemp, executive vice president of the advocacy group Autism Speaks, “Unless we attack this like a national health crisis, we’re going to have a huge economic crisis on our hands.”

Certainly families feel the financial strain. Many health insurance policies do not cover autism treatments, while those that do often have severe limits. And there is very little government or private financial assistance available.

In many cases these children will need assistance all their lives, Mr. Ganz points out. Making sure there is money for the future is something else parents worry about.

When his sons received their diagnosis, Mr. Sell was practicing personal-injury law in Texas, and he began paying for many of their treatments from his own income and savings. In 2005, as he became more involved in autism issues, he joined the staff of the Autism Society of America in Bethesda, Md., where he is now a vice president.

His sons are now 15. One, Joe, is talkative and considered “high functioning.” The other, Ben, is nonverbal with profound autism.

“What works for one child doesn’t necessarily work for the other,” Mr. Sell said. “So we’re talking about finding and paying for twice as many treatments.”

In the early years, the Sell family had some autism coverage under Mr. Sell’s health insurance. But claims for certain therapies, tests and treatments were often denied. “I was very aggressive about appealing those denials, and I often won,” Mr. Sell said.

But even with coverage, Mr. Sell found he needed to pay enormous amounts out of pocket to come close to giving his sons the 20 to 40 hours of behavioral therapies each week that were often recommended. (Eventually, as discussed below, Mr. Sell was also able to obtain financial assistance through a special part of the Medicaid program.)

Although direct financial support may be scarce and hard to obtain, there are several autism information and advocacy groups that routinely help parents navigate financial hurdles. Here is a road map parents can use to get started.

CHECK YOUR INSURANCE Coverage for autism treatments is still far from common, but it is improving. Some large employers offer policies that cover treatment, and 15 states have passed laws mandating at least some autism-related coverage. The Autism Society’s Web site lists the relevant states. (That section of the site is still under construction, but you can scroll down to see the states.)

In addition, Maine and New Hampshire both have legislation pending that could pass soon, Mr. Kemp said.

If you do have coverage, watch for limitations. Because treatment for autism is so individualized, there are few uniform standards or protocols for insurance companies to follow. That means parents often have to argue that a certain therapy or treatment is necessary. Also, be sure to check any caps on treatment, Mr. Sell warns. What may look generous — say $36,000 a year — can be spent quickly. Or there may be limits on how many sessions of a particular type of therapy will be paid for each year.

And you will want to coordinate your insurance coverage with the services you may be receiving from your child’s school. If an occupational therapist sees your child regularly in school, for example, you may want to save your insurance dollars for social interaction therapies.

In addition, you may need to be especially aggressive about coverage for some medical conditions. Gastrointestinal problems, for instance, are extremely common in autistic children.

Mr. Sell found himself fighting for such coverage for Ben, his nonverbal son. The insurance company had denied the claim for gastrointestinal testing, saying that because Ben’s behavior problems were related to autism, the testing was not covered.

Mr. Sell, convinced Ben was in pain and could not tell anyone what was wrong, appealed and won. The tests showed that Ben had ulcers and lower-intestine problems that still occasionally flare up and require treatment.

MEDICAID WAIVERS Some states offer Medicaid coverage for children with autism without taking the family’s income into account — only the child’s diagnosis. This is usually reserved for fairly serious cases but is worth exploring, Mr. Sell said.

“This was a godsend for us,” he said. The waiver, he said, allows families access to services that private insurance won’t cover and that they wouldn’t be able to afford otherwise.
With the waiver, Mr. Sell was able to get more home-based speech and occupational therapies for his sons to supplement the sessions they receive at the public school they both attend. Medicaid also covers recreational therapy during which a specialist takes Ben and Joe on hikes and other outings, giving the parents some downtime.

To see if your child is eligible for a Medicaid waiver, go to the Centers for Medicare and Medicaid Services Web site and click on your state.

Because Medicaid is one of the few government lifelines available, waiting lists for waivers can be extremely long. Mr. Sell, for example, waited nine years to get waivers for his sons.
“Just go ahead and get on the list and try not to be too discouraged,” advised Mr. Sell. “Many states are moving faster now.”

GO LOCAL Many autism advocacy organizations, including Autism Speaks and the Autism Society of America, are affiliated with local chapters throughout the country. In addition, most states, counties, towns and cities provide lists of local autism resources and support groups.

It is people in the local groups who will know all the resources available. They can also help you keep up with the latest research, so you don’t spend time and money chasing the many unsubstantiated “cures” out there. They will also have lots of practical advice, like which dentists, optometrists and even barbers are good with autistic children.

“You think going to the barber is no big deal?” Mr. Sell asked. “Just try it with an autistic child.”

OTHER RESOURCES A handful of organizations like Easter Seals and the National Autism Association offer financial help to struggling families. Autism Family Resources and United Healthcare Children’s Foundation also offer grants to pay for autism treatments.

Monday, January 18, 2010

Wednesday, January 13, 2010

Virginia Tries Again... Sort of... HB 303...


HB 303 Health insurance; mandated coverage for autism spectrum disorder. 



Health insurance; mandated coverage for autism spectrum disorder.  Requires health insurers, health care subscription plans, and health maintenance organizations to provide coverage for the diagnosis and treatment of autism spectrum disorder in individuals from the date of diagnosis until they reach 10 years of age.  This requirement does not apply to individual or small group policies, contracts, or plans, and will not apply to the state employees' health insurance plan until July 1, 2015.




...So if you happen to be under the age of the ten when this passed, you are in luck.  Jimmy and whole bunch of other kids like him: too late for you, you aren't worth helping, you aren't worth medical treatment or care.  The autism lobbyists are trying to pump parents up to call their delegates and I do think early intervention is crucial, but are we going to put an expiration date on children?  I guess all the legislation does to some degree, as treatment is focused on minor children.  Six, eight, ten... it seems arbitrary to me.  I don't think I can support this legislation.  

I'm with Coco


Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Two Weeks???

Eeekkk!!! I am sorry. Tomorrow! I promise!

Thursday, December 31, 2009

An Actual Comment I Got About Autistic Kids

I have had too much time on my hands with the snow days so I commented on an article in a newspaper. I didn't realize there was a direct message function, so this was forwarded to my e-mail. The comment that he made in his post suggested giving autistic kids guns and ammo if they couldn't be institutionalized. The editor has since removed the comment.

"I just want to say I don't mean to hurt anyone's feelings over this issue. I just say what is on my mind and sometimes the truth is hurtful to some. I applaud the devotion and dedication it must take to raise an autistic child, but it's just my opinion that they should be institutionalized and the school tax burden that they cause to skyrocket would deminish. It is no doubt the most difficult thing to ever do, to part with such a child. Tell me why people take them to restaurants to disturb somebody elses peaceful meal?"

I need to get back to work. No more holidays, no more snow days. I have too much time on the Internet with too many people who have entirely too many people who have too much time and opinions. Starting now... going to clean the guest room.

Tuesday, December 29, 2009

What Happens When Autistic Children Become Adults

From the Autism Learning Felt blog. What is most stunning in this entry, in one Florida survey, 74% of autistic adults want to work, but only 19% have the opportunity. The government and communities aren't looking ahead to the future for these kids. Parents... we are just trying to manage the day to day. It also mentioned that ugly institutionalization word again. No job, no group home apparently. I don't want an institutionalized life for my son. He deserves more. I want more. I didn't bring him into to the world for this.

Saturday, December 26, 2009

U.S. Senate Passes Health Care Reform Bill Containing Provision For Autism Insurance Reform and Cures Acceleration Network

Does "essential benefits packages" mean nationally mandated? Does this mean we can stop fighting state by state? Does this mean Jimmy will get a chance at the care he deserves even though he lives in Virginia?

U.S. Senate Passes Health Care Reform Bill Containing Provision For Autism Insurance Reform and Cures Acceleration Network

Washington, DC (December 25, 2009) – Autism Speaks, the nation’s largest autism science and advocacy organization, applauds the members of the U.S. Senate for yesterday passing an overall health care reform bill that contains provisions for autism insurance reform, as well as the funding to accelerate the scientific discovery of autism treatments and cures.

The provision for autism insurance reform was introduced in September by Senator Robert Menendez and passed by the Senate Finance Committee with the support of Committee Chairman Max Baucus. The provision will prohibit discrimination in benefits against people with autism by including behavioral health treatments as part of the essential benefits package.

The bill also included elements of the Cures Acceleration Network (CAN) Act, introduced in April by Senator Arlen Specter . Like the CAN Act, this provision of the health care reform bill would create a large new fund for, and focus on, "bench to bedside" research, creating an emphasis on more quickly translating research discoveries into practical medical applications. Autism Speaks was the first disease advocacy group to support the CAN Act.

“We are grateful to Senators Menendez, Baucus, Specter, and their Senate colleagues for passing this health care reform bill, ensuring that families dealing with autism are a part of larger health care reform,” said Peter Bell, Autism Speaks executive vice president for programs and services. “Now that the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention has confirmed that autism affects one percent of American children, the need for our legislators to ensure that families can afford the treatments their children need, as well as a redoubling of our federal government’s commitment to science and innovation in the search for a cure, has never been more important.”

“The addition of the Cures Acceleration Network to the health care reform legislation will create the urgency we desperately need at the federal level to push science toward real impact on people’s lives,” said Geraldine Dawson, PhD, Autism Speaks Chief Science Officer. “In the area of autism research, in particular, much needs to be done to translate important discoveries into treatments and therapies that can help individuals living with autism today.”

The Senate and House versions of the health care reform bills must now be reconciled and approved by both bodies before presented to President Obama for his signature.

Friday, December 25, 2009

Have Yourself a Little Taps Christmas



Santa hit it out of the park this year. Meet Disney's Little Taps. Sadly available only in Asia, we had to buy ours on Ebay from a seller in Hong Kong. Grandma got the fifth from someone in Oregon, but it was Asian in origin too. It's sort of the perfect autistic toy - ordered, repetitive, soothing. Jimmy's been watching these Little Taps videos on You Tube since the end of the summer and he loves them. He didn't put these things down for nine hours today. He's just delighted.

I am putting together an e-mail to the powers that be at Disney to see if there is any chance these things will be released here in the States. The mark up in the secondary market might kill me long term. But seeing Jimmy so happy, so engaged with Christmas... it was so worth it.

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

An e-mail I received regarding concert tickets... Concert Fans Beware!!!!

Concert Fans Beware!

There’s a train wreck about to happen and consumer groups say YOU will be the victim if the two most powerful corporate interests in the live concert business get their way. But you can help stop the merger of Ticketmaster and Live Nation. The government needs to hear from music fans now. Tell the Department of Justice that you’re against these monopolies amassing illegal power over consumers, before it’s too late. antitrust.complaints@usdoj.gov

As a concertgoer you have already felt the pain, and if Ticketmaster and Live Nation get their way, it’ll get worse. In the last 12 years, since Live Nation and its predecessor started its widespread takeover of the concert industry, concert ticket prices have shot up 82% while the consumer price index has gone up just 17%*. We are concerned that if the two concert industry behemoths, Live Nation and Ticketmaster, are permitted to merge, the variety and quality of artists coming to local venues will be affected, and your costs could rise further and faster.

Five of the nation’s most prominent public interest groups called on the Department of Justice to block the proposed merger of Ticketmaster and Live Nation:

Consumers deserve a fair deal in the entertainment marketplace, not the fewer choices and higher prices that would result from this merger,” said Susan Grant, Director of Consumer Protection at Consumer Federation of America

This merger is an insult to both musicians and consumers,” said James Love, Director of Knowledge Ecology International

“We cannot envision a remedy that would ease this chilling impediment to competition… In the absence of other effective, expeditious remedies, the proposed transaction should be prohibited.” American Antitrust Institute White Paper

As described by Senator Herb Kohl (WI) in the House Antitrust hearing, “This merger will not only expand Ticketmaster’s control of the ticketing market by eliminating a competitor, but it is also creating an entity that will control the entire chain of the concert business – from artist management to concert promotion and production to ticketing and ticket resale.

This merger would be a disaster for consumers. Nothing short of blocking this takeover of the ticket market by two industry behemoths will be acceptable,” said National Consumers League Executive Director Sally Greenberg

“As president, I will direct my administration to reinvigorate antitrust enforcement. I will step up review of merger activity and take effective action to stop or restructure those mergers that are likely to harm consumer welfare…,” said Senator Barack Obama when he was campaigning for the presidency.

If you agree with the consumer groups and lawmakers, make a difference and LET YOUR VOICE BE HEARD NOW.

Send a message to the Antitrust Division of the Department of Justice telling them you support President Obama’s campaign promise to protect the American public from abusive monopolies.

antitrust.complaints@usdoj.gov

To learn more, check out:

ticketdisaster.org


Sunday, December 20, 2009

Two Feet of Snow...

I guess timing is everything. I had surgery on Friday afternoon that ran long and was discharged from the hospital very late in the evening... into a snowstorm. I thought they said it wouldn't begin until after midnight. They have already called school for Monday morning, at least for me. Jimmy is completely screwed up sleepwise - just a bundle of energy from being inside all day with no running around. Jacob is crashed out after having "helped" his dad shovel snow. It was a fruitless task as it came down so quickly. I have been up and down between getting sedatives out of my systems while putting painkillers into my systems. Odd timing for a blizzard, but for me some good enforced down time to recover and to hang out with my kids.

Saturday, December 19, 2009

1 in 110...

A slight improvement from the initial 1 in 100 that I heard a few months ago, but the CDC is officially reporting 1 in 110 as the autism rate in children, with the rate in boys at 1 in 70. It is still stunning to me that we are arguing about insurance coverage and educational services in light of these statistics. Look around at the kids you know. Name one thing that is more prevalent these days than autism. I think the only the thing you can look and see is asthma and ADHD. As quoted in the linked article, ""Autism spectrum disorder" is an umbrella term for three types of neurological disorders that can lead to significant social, communication and behavioral challenges." Neurological. Yet parents are fighting state by state to get autism covered under health insurance policies and we are completely unclear what is going on nationally within health care reform regarding autism. (Just when I think I have a handle on that, it seems like something has changed yet again...) We fear coming educational budget cuts. I worry what tone outgoing governor Tim Kaine has set in slashing mental health funding on his way out of office. (And he is running the DNC for the next few years? I really hope they don't call here looking for money.)

1 in 110. When does it become a crisis? When each and every child is severely autistic? Or when that severely autistic child is yours?

I will admit, it wasn't on my radar until it happened to me. But autism changed the world view of our extended family as they have seen us struggle. With these number, if you don't know someone who is struggling with raising a child autism, with having the therapy they need uninsured, and their schooling inadequate for their disability, it will not be long before you do. And you won't have to look any further than family photos.

Tuesday, December 15, 2009

Insurance Companies Refuse Autism Coverage

An older article, but the quote is why I love Bob Marshall, for all his quirks....

LEESBURG, Va., June 21, 2009

Insurance Companies Refuse Autism Coverage

Total Cost For A Child Can Reach $5 Million, But Few States Mandate Coverage; Is Change On The Horizon?



(CBS)
An estimated one in every 150 children in America has autism and the number of reported cases is growing.

The total cost of caring for an autistic child can reach a staggering $5 million.

Parents are increasingly demanding that insurance companies cover the newest treatment.

CBS News correspondent Thalia Assuras
visited one such family in Virginia.

At 7 years old, Tristan Oldham is the big brother in this rambunctious trio. A couple of years younger is Gareth - bubbly and playful until he was two.

That's when "he slowly stopped playing. He would sit in a corner and chew on his shirt and play with the shadows," said mother Cassandra Oldham.

Gareth was diagnosed with autism. Nine months later, as Cassandra and Bill Oldham struggled to cope with Gareth's condition, they suffered another blow. Their third child, Korlan, is also autistic.

"I can't even describe it in words really. Just pain. Pain. Gut-wrenching more pain," Cassandra Oldham said.

The emotional anguish was multiplied by financial stress.

Intensive, one-on-one behavioral and speech therapy called "applied behavior analysis therapy" or ABA helps the boys. But it costs up to $7,000 a month per child for the recommended 40 hours per week. The Oldhams struggled to pay even half the amount.

"Which child do you choose? We don't have enough money to pay for therapy for both of them," Cassandra Oldham said.

The Oldhams have insurance, but not for autism therapy because Virginia isn't one of the seven states that mandate coverage. Businesses say adding autism to the list is too expensive.

"Prosthetics, mental health, stress, hypertension: all of these things lead to a cumulative effect that runs the risk of putting the insurance out of reach for the average business person and the average employee working for that person," said Hugh Keogh of the Virginia Chamber of Commerce.

Cassandra Oldham and state Delegate Bob Marshall don't buy it. They are pushing legislation that would force insurers to cover ABA, and say the costs of a policy would be minimal - somewhere between $2 and $4 a month.

"There are real children whose lives are going to be destroyed because we are acting indifferent to them. That's not a moral response," Marshall said.

But in tough economic times, states like Virginia are trying to figure out how to do the most good with fewer resources.

"I have a lot of fear when I think about the future and where my kids will be at," Cassandra Oldham said.

They've thought about moving to a state where their boys can get all the help they need.

Sunday, December 13, 2009

The Dolphin Feeding






So, one of the first things we did was the dolphin feeding at Sea World. We got in the line, bought the fish, and briefly waited. We came in, DH took the video camera to try to get footage of us feeding the dolphins and we set to it. Jacob is doing okay, but I have one hand on Jimmy. With his free hand, he is taking off his socks and shoes, wanting to go for a swim. I am thinking this isn't going well. Jacob is pushing up on the edge to get closer to the dolphins, so I can see him going in too. One of the trainers sees me struggling and asks if she can help, looking specifically at Jimmy, who wants to swim with the fishes. I introduce Jimmy. The next thing I know, she blows her whistles and calls over our own personal dolphin to feed, pet, and commune with. It was truly amazing. We were over the moon and I was moved by her generosity. It was the greatest gift to both my boys, but most especially Jimmy.

Sea World

Sea World was just huge for Jimmy. It wasn't just that we went through every exhibit. Jimmy would drag us through multiple times. He was so excited to feed the dolphins, he tried to take off his shoes to go in for a swim with them. He would wake up every morning and look out the window, across the parking lot, towards Sea World, begging to go. He loved every bit of it. So did Jacob.


The holiday photo with Shamu...

Jacob in conversation with Zap and his elf friend. This was hysterical. They were street performing elves in the waterfront area and I think Jacob spent 20 minutes with Zap, just talking to him. It was just kind of amazing. Jacob still talks about him, asking if he's coming for Christmas. Forget Santa, it's all Zap now. Whoever this guy was, he is amazing. If you stumble across this blog, thank you for making my kid feel so special!


Jacob in the tank in the new Manta exhibit, under the coaster. Kind of cool.

More Universal Island of Adventure Photos


The Fantastic Car...


Jimmy wanting no part of the Spiderman picture.

After much delay, the Thanksgiving photos...

Okay, I know they are considerably overdue, but here is the beginning of the Thanksgiving vacation photos. We sort of didn't do much of anything this summer in anticipation of this trip and it certainly was worth it. We went to Disney World in 2006 and realized how we really missed the boat with Jimmy when we wound up spending hours at Epcot's aquarium. So, this was the Sea World trip with a day at Universal's Island of Adventure for Jacob.
Meeting Spiderman...

Jimmy running around If I Ran the Zoo in the Dr. Seuss area in IOA... Couldn't get him on many of the rides like we did at Disney, but he loved the play areas at Universal.

Jacob with Betty Boop...

Jacob as a Jurassic snack...

Saturday, December 12, 2009

Every parent, as sad and frightening as this is, should read this article...

This is the future that I fear and the one that I work so hard to give Jimmy the tools to prevent.

"To whom it may concern:

"If this letter has been opened and is being read, it is because I have been seriously injured or killed by my son, Sky Walker. I love Sky with my whole heart and soul and do not believe he has intentionally injured me. I have tried my best to get help for him and to end the pattern of violence that has developed in this home. I believe my best has not been good enough. That is my fault, not Sky's. Numerous people know about the violence and many have witnessed it. We have all failed Sky. I do not want him to be punished for actions for which he is not responsible.

"Trudy Steuernagel."

Sunday, December 06, 2009

Yes, we are back... and alive...




We took our vacation to Florida for Thanksgiving... and I brought back a cold. So I have again neglected my blog. I will try to compose a post about my trip tomorrow. I did want to post our best photo of our dolphin feeding experience. Actually, there is a better one with all four of us, but it is upstairs.

More tomorrow on the trip...

Wednesday, November 25, 2009

Teen with Asperger's Spends 11 Days Wandering NYC Subway

... and the police do nothing...

New York Police Commissioner Ray Kelly was asked about police actions in the case on Tuesday, during a news conference on other, unrelated subjects. He said police "waited for a few days, because obviously (the missing persons unit) would be overwhelmed if we took every report of a young teenager not home."

Kelly said proper protocol was followed.

"I believe that all appropriate action was taken to find this young man," Kelly told reporters.


I would think the NYC police would do more to find a child with a developmental disability on the autism spectrum. He wasn't just another "young teenager not home."

Saturday, November 21, 2009

FDA OKs Abilify for autism-linked irritability

After today, this sounds pretty good to me...

The U.S. Food and Drug Administration has approved top-selling Abilify as a treatment for autism-related irritability in children from the ages of 6 to 17, drug maker Bristol-Myers Squibb Co. said Friday.

Hey, Lamar Alexander

I would like to point out that Medicaid, the "medical ghetto," is the only thing providing any sort of real coverage for the long term care needs for families with children with children with autism. When they are adults and unable to work or obtain private coverage due to their preexisting condition, Medicaid is exactly what covers them.

Monday, November 16, 2009

I guess I really need to learn how to read legislation...

Hidden in all of that grant stuff, it was there... I just didn't see it...
U.S. House Passes Health Insurance Reform Bill Containing Provision for Autism Insurance Reform
Washington, DC (November 8, 2009) --

Autism Speaks, the nation's largest autism science and advocacy organization, today applauds the members of the U.S. House of Representatives for passing a health care reform bill that contains a provision for autism insurance reform in a vote held late last night.

The provision, introduced this past July by Congressman Mike Doyle (D-PA) and passed by the House Energy and Commerce Committee, will prohibit discrimination in benefits against people with autism by including behavioral health treatments as part of the essential benefits package. The bill must now be passed by the U.S. Senate.


I am still not sure what that all means... what is the essential benefits package? The one that every insure must provide, whether it be through your employer or the government? I am unclear. Maybe I will do some homework later. For now, its off to take care of a sick Jimmy and fold laundry.

Saturday, November 14, 2009

Another shocking statistic...

From Massachussetts:
A story just out from the Boston Herald state: Survey finds 90% of autistic kids bullied. The story starts out with:

A shocking new online survey has found that nearly 90 percent of autistic children in the Bay State have been targeted by bullying so violent and ruthless that a state lawmaker says teachers and school systems must be held accountable.

All kids are bullied to some extent, but I have no doubt that autistic kids get much more than their share of bullying.


90% of autistic children sampled in a single state are bullied in school. It's just pathetic.

Wednesday, November 11, 2009

Special needs Girl Scout troop rejects girl, 8, with autism

Ok, now I am hot. Not buying cookies at my job is politically untenable for me. Don't make me miss my Samoas over this crap. Let this child back in her troop. 'Cause I will say something about discrimination to every troop mom standing in front of the grocery store if I have to...

I am worked up...

Special needs Girl Scout troop rejects girl, 8, with autism
November 10, 12:23 PM
Seattle Special Needs Issues Examiner
Shelley Dillon

Was it a misunderstanding? Or some crazy mistake? Magi Klages' parents are wondering just that.

Their daughter with autism had been thriving for 2 years in a Girl Scout "Brownie program", an organization that pledges to "help people at all times" and to be "honest and fair, considerate and caring".

According to an ABC news report, when Magi's Brownie troop grew too large and her parents moved her to a smaller one for children with special needs, they never imagined their 8-year-old would be kicked out for being a "danger".
Magi's mother always accompanied her to the meetings and they thought the first one was going well for a child with autism in a brand new situation. Truthfully, Magi was having a tough time sitting down to do a project and needed to work through an episode of biting herself and running around at the meeting. She displayed many behaviors quite usual for children with autism but after the meeting the parents were called and told Magi could not come back.

The other children in the troop all have physical challenges and the troop leader alleged the other girls were afraid of her. Magi's parents are disturbed that their daughter was rejected because of her disability.

"We don't get it," said Michele Klages, who always accompanies Magi to the meetings. "She's 30 pounds and we were there. We were told she was scaring the other girls."
She said they had been up-front with the group leader about Magi, who is mostly nonverbal and relies on sign language to communicate. They were especially upset to learn the leader has a child with special needs.
It's terrible," said Michelle Tompkins, a spokeswoman for the Girl Scouts of the United States of America, who said she had received a "courtesy call" from the local council about the incident. "We are very inclusive and have a national policy against all forms of discrimination."

Anita Rodrigues, spokeswoman for the Girl Scouts of Wisconsin Southeast, did not return several phone calls from ABCNews.com. But Michele Klages says the council contacted her about the possibility of finding another troop for Magi to join.

Even the Autism Society of America admits that the Girl Scouts do "wonderful work" with children with disabilities and has often contributed volunteers to help children with this neurological disorder. It says that children with autism are rarely dangerous to others and that the incident illustrates the need for more support and training in organizations like the Girl Scouts.

Why did this happen? We will probably never know as the Girl Scout are evoking confidentially and will not share details.
Sadly, this whole incident could demonstrate a lack of autism awareness and basic information about the disorder. Surely in a special needs program, leaders would possess the level of understanding, background and compassion to be able to include children with all special needs or ask for some more help.

If the other girls were scared of Megin's behavior, that would have been the appropriate time to have a teaching moment; discuss autism and common behavioral issues associated with it. Model understanding, empathy and kindness; that is the what the Girl Scouts are all about.

"These children are so misunderstood," said Michele Klages. "We need to educate ourselves that these kids can be loving and fun. They should be given a chance like any other child."

Tuesday, November 10, 2009

Military Families Battle Against Autism

Why do military families deserve autism covered under their health insurance and the rest of us don't?

Military Families Battle Against Autism
By TISHA THOMPSON/myfoxdc

WASHINGTON, D.C. - At first glance, the Driscolls look like any other family at the park. But then, with very little warning, 11-year-old Paul starts to break down.

“Oh Daddy! Where are you?” he exclaims.

Paul is autistic. His father is a colonel is in the Marines flying injured soldiers out of combat. But it is Paul’s mom, Karen Driscoll, who is waging a new type of battle.

"As a senior Marine Corps spouse, I finally said, ‘You know what? I have a responsibility to my son, but I also have a responsibility to other Marine Corps families to speak out,’" Karen told FOX 5.

Curious to know how many other military families struggle with autism, Karen Driscoll filed a Freedom of Information Act request with the U.S. Department of Defense. The military sent her a list of statistics, which boiled down to an alarming number. At least one out of 88 military kids has autism.

“The numbers are pretty consistent with what we’ve seen in other countries,” says National Autism Center Director Susan Wilczynski. “In the United Kingdom, in Canada, where the numbers have been one in 100 or lower.”

Wilczynski says the military’s numbers represent a more realistic picture of what’s happening across the country. Recent studies released in October show as many as one out of 91 kids nationwide now has autism.

“For someone to go overseas feeling uncertain how well cared for their family is an unbelievable burden for the parent that’s leaving,” says Wilczynski. “But it’s also a huge burden for the family member who stays.”

Major Andy Hilmes says his son Drew was diagnosed with autism six months before his second deployment in Iraq. To help Drew learn basic skills like speaking and interacting with other children, Major Hilmes put Drew in a special clinic near Ft. Hood, Texas that offers intensive treatment called Applied Behavioral Analysis, better known as ABA therapy. The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends autistic kids get at least 25 hours a week of ABA therapy.

“Without those services, they’re not likely to develop the skills to reach their potential,” says Wilczynski.

But Drew’s mother, Nikki Hilmes, says that’s hard for military families because the military caps how much therapy it covers.

"The military now, with the funding that we get, we are able to provide between 10 and 14 hours," she says.

Military families get their medical benefits through a government-run program called TRICARE. TRICARE refused FOX 5’s request for an on-camera interview, but says its coverage is competitive with other commercial insurance providers.

Karen Driscoll says TRICARE isn’t telling the truth. She says she and her husband paid for their son’s treatment by emptying out their savings, mortgaging their house and finally borrowing money from their parents.

"My husband is a colonel in the Marine Corps,” Driscoll says. “If this is hard for us, if this is breaking our bank, I am very concerned for our younger Marines and our enlisted personnel."


But Driscoll and other military moms have discovered increasing coverage literally requires an act of Congress.

Congressman Joe Sestak (D-PA) is a retired Vice-Admiral with the Navy. This summer, he introduced a bill forcing TRICARE to provide more coverage. The price tag? About $50 million, which Sestak’s staff says is little more than the price of one Trident II missile.

“This is taking care of the troops,” says Sestak. "This is just one necessary step to say, ‘Look, we're going to take care of this with minimal cost. You, warrior, keep your mind on your mission because when you come home it’s as good as it possibly could be.’ That is what it’s about."

When Congress voted on the Defense Authorization Bill in October, Sestak’s bill passed the U.S. House of Representatives, but it died in the U.S. Senate. Meaning for at least another year, the Driscolls and thousands of other military families say they have to come up with another way to pay for therapy if their kids have any hope of winning the war here on the home front.

Sunday, November 08, 2009

Health care reform vote: why this is important

Health care reform vote: why this is important
November 7, 9:31 PM
Atlanta Special Needs Kids Examiner
Katie McKoy

As the debate and possible vote on the health care reform package approach, I cannot help but to speak up and say something as a parent of two children with special medical needs. Please think about this on a human level rather than political. Illness and disability do not care about political affiliation.

The health care system in the United States is broken run by health insurance companies who care only about profit and not about patients. Families of children with special needs in Georgia find themselves in an epic battle with insurance companies. Treatment for autism, cerebral palsy, speech delays, and any developmental issue is a war with the deck stacked against the child. While there are outside resources to help some families, the crux of the issue is that families who are paying for health care coverage are not getting what they paid for. Health insurance companies in Georgia employ tactics such as dropping patients, delaying payment, and denying claims for no valid reason as a method of driving up profits. The Georgia Department of Insurance provides little to no protection for patients. All the while, the cost of health care skyrockets and families go into a monstrous amount of debt as they try to care for their children. Our legislators meanwhile are cutting programs like special education and Medicaid making the hardship even worse.

It is obvious that the health care system needs an overhaul. However, the devil is in the details. Is a state run plan for everyone the best idea? No, because the government is not exactly the best thing when it comes to its current disability and low income plans like SCHIP, Medicaid, and SSI disability. However, everyone can agree that regulation of the health insurance industry needs to happen now. Health care coverage needs to be more affordable and required for everyone. Expanding Medicaid and Peachcare (SCHIP) eligibility to low income adults along with co-pays and premiums based on income is an idea that could work. High risk pools for patients who have pre-existing conditions needs to be implemented nationwide. Currently in Georgia, no such thing exists. Insurance companies need to be forced to cover therapies for developmental disabilities. They also must be held accountable for denials and dropping patients. Doctors, patients, pharmaceutical companies, health insurance companies, and politicians should all be included in the dialogue on how to fix this system before it breaks the nation.

After all the talk about death panels and other hype, people failed to see that insurance company executives are making decisions on who lives and who dies as we speak. We have bureaucrats who only care about profits deciding who lives and who dies. Sometimes they decide to deny a sick grandmother chemotherapy or an organ transplant. Other times, they decide to deny a sick infant a bone marrow transplant based on a loophole or technicality. Other times they decide to drop swine flu victims of coverage if they get too sick and max out a policy. Either way, people are getting sentenced to death every single day by health insurance companies.

Reforming health care and health insurance immediately is vital for the future success and recovery of the US economy. Cancer, disability, and illness do not care about political party affiliation. It is time for the politicians in Washington, DC to come together, set aside their differences, and work on a plan that is good for the entire nation. For special needs kids and all kids in Georgia and all over the nation, this reform needs to happen now.

Please put politics aside and realize that this is necessary for the future health of our children and nation.

HR 3962 Does Nothing to Address the Insurance Needs of Families of Autistic Children

The insurance industry wins again... why does it not surprise me that we got screwed in this...

A close examination of the text of the bill reveals that most of the provisions included relate to training, setting up grants for qualified institutions to train specialists and health care providers. However, there is also a focus on integrated family training and support of community and family-based care including financial provisions for the training of parents. If this bill passes, this could lead to programs being set up at the federal and state levels to provide funding to families seeking further assistance and specialized training in how to support dependents on the autism spectrum. Most of the funding however, is not earmarked to be set aside until fiscal year 2011.



Grants, programs... I need to write a post detailing my DD Waiver nightmare, where I am not officially on a waitlist until a plan of care has been written by my case manager. My case manager, the only one in Northern Virginia who was accepting new clients six months ago when this all began, never wrote it and now the state is threatening to drop Jimmy. This case management company won't return my multiple phone calls. So DMAS sends me a list where the only other name in Northern Virginia who is accepting new clients... well, she isn't. So they tell me to call everyone else on the list who is full to see if I can get someone else to write this plan of care. I got someone who said yes, but now she hasn't called me back. I think I may finally have it straightened out with a third case management company, but it is beyond insane.

More bullshit hoops for parents to jump through instead of real care for our kids. Ridiculous. I am furious. This is a complete let down. For parents of autistic kids, this isn't reform. It's the same old crap.

HR 3962

Ok, HR 3200 has autism language in it, but the bill voted on tonight was HR 3962. Is the same language there? At one point, I had a reader from Congressman Wolf's office. If she is still around, could you let me know. Thanks!

Saturday, November 07, 2009

I Am Autism

Ex-NBC CEO on Autism, Comcast

Ex-NBC CEO on Autism, Comcast

Bob Wright, founder of Autism Speaks, talks about health care reform and provisions made for autism in the house and senate bills.

Health Care Reform Bill and Autism...

A brief summary of language in HR3200 that address autism from the Autism Society of America:

These proposals include provisions that prohibit companies from excluding coverage based on pre-existing conditions, including autism; prohibit annual and lifetime spending caps; and require that companies cover habilitative and other lifespan care. Moreover, the amendment that Representative Mike Doyle added to the House Bill, HR 3200, requires that companies cover behavioral health treatments as part of the essential coverage package. The Doyle amendment, and his many other advocacy efforts, has kept the interests of people affected by autism in the debate.

Tuesday, November 03, 2009

Looking forward with a lot of fear...

So, of the big three offices in the state, not a one got a supporter of autism insurance mandates. I think this is going to be a scary ride for kids like my son. I hope not, but I think it will be. I am kind of glad Jackson Miller stayed in. In spite of my insecure, spun up criticism of his actions on HB1588, I do respect him cosponsoring the bill. He has told me so many time that he is a moderate Republican and maybe he is what is need there, now more than ever.

As I take the last steps to get on the DD waivers waitlist, get my school services yanked, and worry about how long I will keep the help I have, I feel like I ride a roller coaster of great report cards and even greater fears. It would be one thing if those fears were unfounded or figments of the imagination, but they aren't. Families of autistic kids worry and struggle and walk a tightrope every single day. Our situation isn't unique - it's standard. And it shouldn't be.

Parent/Teacher Conferences

Jimmy and Jacob both had great conferences. Jimmy got his first letter grade report card. Granted, he is on an functional academic curriculum, but he got all A's. I cried. IEPs can be so sterile, but A's. I understand an A. I have worked my tail off for many an A. I know this seems so dorky, but it is such a happy moment for me as a mom. Both of my boys are doing well.

Monday, November 02, 2009

People are asking me how to vote...

...which is just bananas!

I have to admit, I am a little more comfortable with the question do these jeans make me look fat than I am what to do in the voting booth. But because I just can't bring myself to shut up, I answer anyway. The state offices, at least the top two, are relative no brainers. Jody Wagner has reached out to the autism community, really the only candidate to do so. If you are leaning to split your ballot, there's your split. Creigh Deeds, I think there is hope for him in the mandates battle, so I would suggest that autism's interests (mandates, education, etc...) are better served with him. Ditto with Steve Shannon, though the AG has little to do with our interests.

Here's where it get tricky. My heart tells me that Jackson Miller voted against my bill, but my head believes his procedural argument. I am still miffed, but it is more within the personal context of having Jimmy's services screwed with at school and potentially with his waivers and just feeling under siege. It pushed my buttons. At the end of the day, Jackson Miller supported families with autism. He will likely do it again. (And hopefully he will do it a little more to my liking, like getting to the floor and passed.) Educationally, he has the support of the MEA and the VEA, two groups of which I am member as an educator. I may have gotten my panties in a twist, but I do respect the man. This race is always a little weird because I know his opponent too, Jeanette Rishell, and I like her a lot. With the autism thing being discussed this year, it was all very personal to me and Lord knows I don't handle that stuff very well at all. Even keel? Yeah, right...

Bob Marshall. My hero for fighting for families with autism. But I also spoke to his opponent John Bell. He says he will introduce the bill himself to mandate coverage himself if elected. And he'll get it passed. Military guy, very thoughtful and determined and has obviously studied up on autism. I liked him. I am glad I don't live in that district to have to make that choice. It would be an even harder personal choice than Jackson versus Jeanette.

Whoever you vote for, make it out to the polls tomorrow.

Sunday, November 01, 2009

What It's Like in Virginia?

A Pit Stop from Vacuuming and Playing Cars with Jimmy to Give an Enthusiastic Thumbs Up for Jody Wagner

Please vote for her on Tuesday. I think I have convince two Republican friends who like to split the ballot to actually cast a vote for her. This press release should garner some support from those on the fence politically but interested in autism and other disability issues.

A Happy Halloween

Jacob went as Wolverine. We found a shirt and a cap for Jimmy and he went as a trucker - he isn't much on costumes. We went to the Trunk or Treat at City Hall, which had a moon bounce. Jimmy moonbounced in the rain as Jacob and I went around and collected candy. I'd say we were up there for about 45 minutes, until Jimmy and dad went to man our door and Jacob and I went to canvass the neighbor. It was a good night.